One of my very close friends is pansexual and she had a very big crush on me for a few months. when she asked me out I kind of rejected her because I'm straight and I only like her as a friend. of course, she knew this and wasn't hurt by it when I explained that I would be her friend no matter what. but now she likes this guy from our group and won't give any of us the time of day. she doesn't sit with us at lunch all because she wants to follow this guy around. today she told me I am "Bad at being a friend" because she wants to impress this guy. I don't understand why I'm always the one who gets used to impress people crushes (my other friend does it to me too). I just want my friend back. I can't lose another one.