I'm pretty new to kink communities, but not the culture itself. Just prefacing that. oh, and I'm polyamorous.
So, since I moved from Washington to LA, I had been in a pretty abusive relationship with a guy that I met on fetlife (for about six months), and I'm out of it now.
One of the things he got on me about was that he didn't believe I wanted a real relationship with him, and just wanted to use kink as an adult playground activity, and that I want... read more