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  Anonymous says

I'm 21 by boyfriend is 52. We've been together for 7 months and mind you it is not a materialistic relationship because he has never bought me anything and I'm pretty well off myself. About a month ago he told he he had to have urgent liver surgery and flew to Europe the next day for the operation. Luckily his sister was able to message me from his phone to keep me up to date with his recovery. I cried almost every day and especially during his operation I couldn't even get o... read more

  • Sep 4
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  Anonymous says

I was 19, I met the first guy I kissed back in grade school. We agreed to meet at a casino arcade. I was about an hour late but he waited. We played about two games before leaving and continued our get together to the river walk. The weather outside gave a crisp breeze with a light layer of snow. It was now what I would call an early winter. The end of October was always when everything became so chilly. I wore a light sweater, a thin shirt underneath. Walking outside wasnt m... read more

  • Aug 30
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  Anonymous says

This is literally the 3rd day in a row I'm ranting about my fiance. I don't know what to say or do anymore. It's the 3rd consecutive day we are sleeping separately. No fights, he just claims the futon we placed downstairs during the hurricane is more comfortable than our bed. I think the opposite, plus I like the privacy and security of being in my room. Tried having sex but it didn't work out. What's next? Instead of partners we turn into roommates? I shouldn't even joke... ... read more

  • Aug 28
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Anonymous says

I have been in a relationship for 3 years nearly 4 but I'm struggling and have no idea if I'm to blame or not I need advice. My GF has no ambition in life and expects me to provide for the family which I have no issue with but I also do all the house work and she makes it twice as hard by not putting anything back so I'm constantly tidying up after her she has no work ethic and so have all her family. on top of that she has hardly any friends so expect to come out with me and... read more

  • Aug 28
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Anonymous says

So I don't know what to do. So i recently told my best friend I have feelings for them for the past 9 months, however when telling her this, i realized he has recently gotten into a relationship with another person. We both blame ourselves on what has happened do to not fully understand what each other meant when we would flirt, send love messages, etc. So now I feel I've lost what we had a friends because of this, and I'm completely devastated because of obvious reasons. I'v... read more

  • Aug 28
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Anonymous says

(TL;DR: how to save a life - the fray)

My ex and I were good friends, or so I thought. We split up last year- I realized (and then finally allowed myself to accept) that I am a lesbian, and even if I wasn't, he couldn't follow me where I planned on moving due to his career anyway so it wouldn't have worked out. I thought he'd moved on and had given myself ample room and permission to do so myself. We talked daily throughout the last year, played video games toget... read more

  • Aug 27
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Anonymous says

with my relationship its like we have one part of the day .. heaven , all is nice and were happy ... then next thing you know someone asks one question that upset the other and BOOM, hell. #RelationshipProblems

  • Aug 27
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  MiaoMiao9991 says

#family #trustissues #betrayaloftrust #MiaoMiao9991 #RelationshipProblems #venting I can't trust my own family anymore. I live in a world where I have consequences but my brother doesn't. whenever I do something wrong, my phone gets taken away, but when my brother does something wrong, my parents very rarely, if at all, punish him. As a result, I feel like I just can't trust my parents anymore, and sometimes I feel like I have to take matters into my own hands, even though I ... read more

  • Aug 26
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  Anonymous says

So I recently ended a six year friendship, or at least feel like it's ended, and come to realize several things that I was reluctant to admit.

We met when I was a sophomore in high school. To be perfectly honest, even though we had a serious breaking-point in our relationship, I'll still miss them. Because back then and even earlier this year before they moved we got along fairly well. Just... some things came up that I didn't like to think about because I though... read more

  • Aug 26
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  Anonymous says

Entered my freshman year and I fell deeply I love with this guy and I know what you're thinking you're too young but it's just the way he would make me feel. He wasn't my first but it felt like he was cause we constantly did it for over a year and he told me how he felt towards me and I kept telling him he didn't feel that way towards me but he kept saying it's true. A few months went by while we were "together" and I found out he had a girlfriend and he completely told me of... read more

  • Aug 20
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  Anonymous says

GWM 31, have been single for the last two years. My ex partner physically, emotionally abused me. He f***ing raped me. Multiple times. It's hard to talk about. I feel so lonely. I fear affection, yet crave it. Being sexualized disgusts me. I want to feel like my self again. But I feel f***ing empty and numb. I feel like I've stopped living and I am f***ing hollow. Not wanting to hurt my family and the fact tomorrow could be the day I feel better are what keeps me going. But h... read more

  • Aug 19
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Anonymous says

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. ( this august is our 4 year.) throughout our relationship, i've always went thru these "moods" where I feel like I want to be with someone else. not like a relationship, but just... I guess flirting and sexual things too?? hes sooooo good to me and we have never really had any issues about our relationship before. sometimes I just feel bored I guess?? i've talked to him about it before, how I feel like I'm loosing out ... read more

  • Aug 9
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Anonymous says

I'm sorry annalise for anytime you think i hurt you several years ago. I'm a different person now, that's not me anymore. Heck i forgive myself for being so flawed all those years man i was messed up. It's different now, times, people, everything, has changed at least somewhat and i want to believe in clean slates and fresh starts especially as the new school year begins. We often say to ourselves that we'll make amends but most people stay the same and never do their resolut... read more

  • Aug 1
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Anonymous says

I got a call yesterday from my exboyfriend. After we broke up in a really messy and traumatic ordeal due to us both being really abusive to each other and not sure how to relate healthily, he generally wont talk to me anymore. He hates me. So for him to have called me, I thought it was a big deal. So I answered it. He just wanted his dogtags back from his time in the military, and I told him I'd try to find them. And instead of being civil, he ended the phone call with 'go f*... read more

  • Aug 1
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Anonymous says

I have, rather unfortunately, caught feelings for a close friend and confidant. Because we're rather close, however, she's confided in me that she likes someone else(a mutual friend on ours). I cannot shake feelings easily, so I'm stuck crushing on her while I watch her crush on someone else.
Even worse, she knows I have a crush...she just doesn't know it's on her. Whenever she questions me about it I paste on a smile and do my best to deflect them. I'm living out the p... read more

  • Jul 31
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  Anonymous says

I have a friend that I kinda like (he's a dude) and I'm positive we both like each other the same way. Though I don't want to date him cause he can get...too formal? Like we'd be having a great conversation texting each other and maybe flirt every now an then. He would use terms like mistress or madam (which is cute the first time) But he keeps going on with it and it makes me EXTREMELY uncomfortable so thus forth I have to end the conversation! It makes me uncomfortable beca... read more

  • Jul 26
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  Anonymous says

So, this is my first venting session. To start off, here is some background for you. I've been friends with this guy for four years, and sometime after we started dating. My issues with this relationship are these things: 1} He works on ridiculously huge projects that span from months to years. He's wasting his g**d*** life away! One thing that he's constantly working on, and has been working on for years, is his game. The thing is though, it has so much to it, that it wouldn... read more

  • Jul 24
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  Anonymous says

So, this is my first venting session. To start off, here is some background for you. I've been friends with this guy for four years, and sometime after we started dating. My issues with this relationship are these things: 1} He works on ridiculously huge projects that span from months to years. He's wasting his g**d*** life away! One thing that he's constantly working on, and has been working on for years, is his game. The thing is though, it has so much to it, that it wouldn... read more

  • Jul 24
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  Anonymous says

What do you do if you have been trying to stop all contact with a unhealthy friendship but the person your in a relationship with is good friends with this friend and you just want to never see them again but your partner docent want to stop seeing that person. It's been really hard for me cause my partner knows it hurts me and they still mention their name often and I don't want to take them away from this person if they enjoy their company but I just honestly can't hear tha... read more

  • Jul 23
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  Anonymous says

I'm not a materialistic kind of girl but I guess I'm kinda bitter that my boyfriend hasn't gotten me a promise ring...

I don't know. We've been together for like 3 years and we talk about getting married and building a life together (we're like 19/20) but we know that we can't get married yet because we both have our own lives to think about and we're still in college so it's just not in the cards right now. And we talk about getting promise rings for each other ... read more

  • Jul 22
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