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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. ( this august is our 4 year.) throughout our relationship, i've always went thru these "moods" where I feel like I want to be with someone else. not like a relationship, but just... I guess flirting and sexual things too?? hes sooooo good to me and we have never really had any issues about our relationship before. sometimes I just feel bored I guess?? i've talked to him about it before, how I feel like I'm loosing out ... read more

I'm sorry annalise for anytime you think i hurt you several years ago. I'm a different person now, that's not me anymore. Heck i forgive myself for being so flawed all those years man i was messed up. It's different now, times, people, everything, has changed at least somewhat and i want to believe in clean slates and fresh starts especially as the new school year begins. We often say to ourselves that we'll make amends but most people stay the same and never do their resolut... read more

I got a call yesterday from my exboyfriend. After we broke up in a really messy and traumatic ordeal due to us both being really abusive to each other and not sure how to relate healthily, he generally wont talk to me anymore. He hates me. So for him to have called me, I thought it was a big deal. So I answered it. He just wanted his dogtags back from his time in the military, and I told him I'd try to find them. And instead of being civil, he ended the phone call with 'go fu... read more

I have, rather unfortunately, caught feelings for a close friend and confidant. Because we're rather close, however, she's confided in me that she likes someone else(a mutual friend on ours). I cannot shake feelings easily, so I'm stuck crushing on her while I watch her crush on someone else.
Even worse, she knows I have a crush...she just doesn't know it's on her. Whenever she questions me about it I paste on a smile and do my best to deflect them. I'm living out the plot of... read more

I have a friend that I kinda like (he's a dude) and I'm positive we both like each other the same way. Though I don't want to date him cause he can get...too formal? Like we'd be having a great conversation texting each other and maybe flirt every now an then. He would use terms like mistress or madam (which is cute the first time) But he keeps going on with it and it makes me EXTREMELY uncomfortable so thus forth I have to end the conversation! It makes me uncomfortable beca... read more

So, this is my first venting session. To start off, here is some background for you. I've been friends with this guy for four years, and sometime after we started dating. My issues with this relationship are these things: 1} He works on ridiculously huge projects that span from months to years. He's wasting his g**d*** life away! One thing that he's constantly working on, and has been working on for years, is his game. The thing is though, it has so much to it, that it wouldn... read more

So, this is my first venting session. To start off, here is some background for you. I've been friends with this guy for four years, and sometime after we started dating. My issues with this relationship are these things: 1} He works on ridiculously huge projects that span from months to years. He's wasting his g**d*** life away! One thing that he's constantly working on, and has been working on for years, is his game. The thing is though, it has so much to it, that it wouldn... read more

What do you do if you have been trying to stop all contact with a unhealthy friendship but the person your in a relationship with is good friends with this friend and you just want to never see them again but your partner docent want to stop seeing that person. It's been really hard for me cause my partner knows it hurts me and they still mention their name often and I don't want to take them away from this person if they enjoy their company but I just honestly can't hear tha... read more

I'm not a materialistic kind of girl but I guess I'm kinda bitter that my boyfriend hasn't gotten me a promise ring...

I don't know. We've been together for like 3 years and we talk about getting married and building a life together (we're like 19/20) but we know that we can't get married yet because we both have our own lives to think about and we're still in college so it's just not in the cards right now. And we talk about getting promise rings for each other but he just ... read more

I'm not a materialistic kind of girl but I guess I'm kinda bitter that my boyfriend hasn't gotten me a promise ring...

I don't know. We've been together for like 3 years and we talk about getting married and building a life together (we're like 19/20) but we know that we can't get married yet because we both have our own lives to think about and we're still in college so it's just not in the cards right now. And we talk about getting promise rings for each other but he just ... read more

I'm so alone. I'm 23. I have no friends. The only family I speak to is my grandfather and his health is too bad to talk to about anything. I'm worried he will have a stroke worrying about me.
I live with my boyfriend and we have 2 kids (one is 3 years and on is 10 months). Two beautiful happy boys! But still I feel so alone. My boyfriend and I rarely get along anymore. We don't like any of the same activities. He likes to be outdoors riding four wheelers or taking his truck o... read more

Let me start of with I love my husband more than anything and can't imagine my life without him. But for the last 6 months I've been thinking of a future without him in it. For some reason I keep making accuses for the way he acts and treats me. It's like I'm just a convenience for him. He acts like I'm the world then all of sudden I'm nothing and just a crazy person. I literally do everything for him and I'm the only one that works. While he is out running the streets and ha... read more

I've been going on an off with my ex since we "officially" broke up a year ago. It's hard to break up and stay away when there's no actual reason but you're just not meant to be and you feel it in your gut. We now haven't talked/seen each other in 3 weeks. It's hard knowing we both still love each other. I finally joined a dating app a few days ago and today I found him on there too. I swiped right and we matched. Major deja vu as that is how we met. I said hey and he coincid... read more

I am the link that connects my cousins and friends in my inner circle. My cousin has developed a bromance with my best friend that makes me uncomfortable. I find that I cannot even be in the same room with the two of them so I have avoided those scenarios. Lately when I am with one or the other though they snapchat each other videos and I just can't do this anymore. I feel helpless and lonely.

#confused
#relationshipproblems
#jealousy
#shootme

My friend love and in a new relationship. I recently got out of the biggest relationship of my life which makes me feel like I just walked through hell. I just want to take it easy and have begun talking to guys on dating apps. She wants me to talk to her new boyfriend's friend who lives on another continent. I'm simply not interested in the guy at all and I'm apparently an "idiot" because of that. Since when you become a relationship expert? You like your long distance relat... read more

i'm just feeling really alone/lonely right now. it's crazy..a year ago i didn't think things would be the way they are now. [this is a really long read / vent]

this time last year i was talking to this one guy all day everyday and it was amazing. i really formed a deep connection with him. i met him for the first time in person in august and since then we've spent a lot of time together.

he really broke my heart in december when he made another girl his girlfriend. (literal... read more

ok so, me (f20) and my boyfriend (m20) have been dating 2 years, and long story short he's done nothing with his life. We graduated high school the same time and i went straight into college, and he took a year off (before I met him). While in college he kept telling me "oh i want to do this" but never acted on it. Then in my second year he changed his mind of what he wanted to do. I suggested him the specific program at my college but for some stupid reason he took a differe... read more

I'm not really sure what to do anymore. I've been in a relationship for 6 years now and I'm beginning to think it has been a waste. Essentially, I feel like we are not partners, but roommates at this point, and she is a roommate i am growing to resent. To give a bit of background and show that i didnt come to this state easily-- over the course of our relationship, i have been crazy about her for the most part. she is the kindest person ive ever met, and physically i desire h... read more

Sorry that I was born white, sorry that you feel so damn oppressed yet your family makes more than mind would make in a lifetime! Hey, what can I do to make you feel better about being a minority. Every time you say something like "you people did this" or "I'm glad Obama was president, y'all were in the White House long enough" it makes me feel like you're the racist one and I'm not allowed to respond - which I'm NOT. I'll thank you for not reminding me every f***ing day abou... read more

I have jealousy issues from past relationships and I try to control them but today my girlfriend went on a hike it wouldn't have upset me but she had planned it for a time that I worked (mind you we have the same days off!) and I just found out before she left that there is a guy going with so now in my head it's like they all went on a double date I told her how I felt and we got in the worst argument ever! She never wants to do things with me and in her mind she has put me ... read more