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  • attentionwhore left a Comment

    aslong as u enjoyed it , its harmless.

  • hateradio15 gave Advice

    You weren't doing anything wrong. It would be wrong if you both committed to have sex under the legal age of 18 (or in my country it's 20)

    You were just making out, and even if you were under the legal age it wouldn't matter.

  • loner56987 left a Comment

    ur just having fun. i mean honestly come on you know you had fun

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    A fun time if only nobody ruined it.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    i honestly just went through a very similar experience and i don't even regret it at all i actually thought it was hilarious plus the guys pretty cool

  • Anonymous gave Advice

    Don’t feel ashamed of letting a boy take advantage of you it’s all they care about doesn’t matter how much it will hurt you so be careful from now on and never be alone with a male or group of males is especially unsafe.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    But was it fun? It sounds like a lot of fun. You have to live a little ;)

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    Nothing to be ashamed of! I mean, it sounds like you guys were having fun and still respecting each others boundaries. It's your body, and you get to choose how you use it.

  • Anonymous gave Advice

    Fam, you shouldnt be ashamed. Both of you were pleasuring yourselves and there is nothing wrong with that. f*** the people who think otherwise. Just advice, act as if nothing happened. Boys pleasure themselves in thinking they got to you and try to brag about it, so just keep your cool

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    honestly, same. I reunited with one my old high school classmates at a college halloween party, we were both pretty drunk so we made out and it wasn't bad. But then even after that party, he wanted to meet up to do a part 2 again. At first, I said ok cause we would both be sober and it could become something more, but then I got weird vibes from him and he kept saying "being FWB is great" which is not what I want. Now I just feel uncomfortable around him so I tend to ignore his texts. But he lives in my neighborhood so its kind of hard to avoid him completely. But after the 3rd meet up where all we did was make out (he wanted more but im a virgin and not ready for that yet) I would feel so nauseous after he left, I felt horrible. I say just ignore him if you can, don't think about him, and you'll find someone out there who will want you just as much as you want him.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    I feel the same we are the same situation feels like you wanna die 😭

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    That in no way makes you a whore, if it was consensual and both sides and you don't feel like you were pressured into doing something you didn't want to, then you have every right to do what you please with your body. Don't let anyone make you feel bad about making choices that involve your own body. If you regret doing it, that's okay because everyone makes decisions they aren't so proud of but that doesn't mean you should be ashamed, no one is perfect and you shouldn't feel terrible. Your human and it's okay to be human. If you felt like he was using you, he doesn't deserve you

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    Man... all the negative comments here make me so sad...I know this was posted in 2011 and its 2017 now but I'm going through the same thing except I've only been sending nudes. Only in my bra though. I am a virginf myself and I feel very guilty and ashamed, like I've been a complete failure to my parents and everyone around me. I do like this guy a lot and he exchanges nudes with me aswell but one day the shame was just pouring out of me so I started to call myself names and cry. Please know that you are not a whore. Things escalate quickly in the blink of an eye sometimes. It would be hypocritical if I were to say "forgive yourself" because I can't even do that yet, but to avoid something like this again please set boundaries and know yourself enough to know where your limits are. I hope that you have gotten better since 6 years ago. Damn, that's a long time.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    Man... all the negative comments here make me so sad...I know this was posted in 2011 and its 2017 now but I'm going through the same thing except I've only been sending nudes. Only in my bra though. I am a virginf myself and I feel very guilty and ashamed, like I've been a complete failure to my parents and everyone around me. I do like this guy a lot and he exchanges nudes with me aswell but one day the shame was just pouring out of me so I started to call myself names and cry. Please know that you are not a whore. Things escalate quickly in the blink of an eye sometimes. It would be hypocritical if I were to say "forgive yourself" because I can't even do that yet, but to avoid something like this again please set boundaries and know yourself enough to know where your limits are. I hope that you have gotten better since 6 years ago. Damn, that's a long time.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    I want to know how were you feeling that time while doing so? ?