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    I'm sorry. It sounds so painful to be in that situation.

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    Since there's not much detail you provided sound like there is some trust issues. Not sure if there was a cause but sounds like he doesn't want you to do stuff because he doesn't trust you to go out. Would it help if you tell him of your exact plans? Or have him accompany you? If something happened to cause this, you should try to find a way to gain trust back. I guess at the end of the day you have to decide which is more important, your family or your happiness. It's a tough decision and I bounce between the two every day. Most days I choose family although some days I just want to be free. Sometimes I think the kids would be better off if I'm happier because I would be a better person to take care of them. But part of it is the lack of courage to go through with it. And the logistical and financial hassle of separating. Good luck to you.