My boyfriend is very confusing. He's not very passionate or romantic, but he talks about wanting a future with me. I always feel like I care way more about him and try to make him happy, and he is just kind of dull or doesn't notice me at all. He talks about moving in together, hints at an engagement, but says it in a completely monotone way. Is this just how some people are? I don't want to be stuck with a boring boyfriend