You ask me why I'm so closed off and unaffectionate it's because you put everything above our relationship. You tell me to plan dates for us and then you blow me off. I'm so fed up with being your second priority. Work is always more important. Like today was supposed to be our date day and you planned this 2weeks in advance. I distinctly remember you saying "honey that day will be about you! I've told everyone not to call so I can spend the whole day with you." And here it is date day an I'm sitting here alone....again. I know at times I can be selfish but I don't think this is one of those times this is the 5th time this has happened. And I'm beginning to feel like I don't matter.