What ever happened to simply giving a compliment and the other person not assuming you want to bang the piss out of them? I seem to have offended some of my co-workers by complimenting on their hair cuts, glasses, etc. It is not just the females (although they are the ones who are offended) if one of the male co-workers is compliment worthy I compliment him as well. Positive affirmation, I thought that was still ok. Am I wrong????