Advice
Recent / Top
  • Anonymous left a Comment

    Your mother is a horrible example of a Christian. She should be ashamed of herself.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    Now the Red Daughter may be given any of the following purifications:

    She may be smudged with herbs such as sage, sweet grass, rose petals etc.
    She may be swept with a bouquet of leaves and flowers. Choose the plant that grows in abundance near you or leaves from her favorite tree. Add to this plum blossoms, white carnations, lilies or some other flower. Sweep her body down from head to toe. Be sure to clean her head, breast, and pubis.
    Bathe her in sacred waters. This may be collected from an unpolluted river, waterfall, or stream. You may want to collect water and expose it to the light of the Full Moon for this bath. If you are fortunate enough to live near the Ocean, go and bathe in the Belly of the Mother directly. If you live in an urban setting fill the bathtub with water, and then add (inexpensive) powdered milk, salt or perfume.
    Whichever purification method you choose should be done thoroughly and in an atmosphere of importance. While cleaning her, list the childhood activities that she can no longer participate in. (If you are documenting the rite, this stage should remain secret. It should not be recorded or photographed).

    In my experience this can become an emotional time. Childhood fears, experiences and abuses may come to consciousness. Let her cry, scream and fight if necessary. Reassure her that the days of powerlessness are coming to an end. When she settles down ask the Red Daughter if she is ready to become the Red Woman. A yes answer means that the ritual can proceed. If she says no everything stops.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    OMFG! YOU DO YOU GIRL! You. Do. You.

  • Anonymous gave Advice

    LMAO
    You are 13 years old. You have no clue about the natural laws of existence or the human mind.....

    You are experiencing puberty, your hormones are out of control and you are finding yourself in life. Of corse you think you are gay. Young teenagers experience lust at a young age. Thats all that it is. You may believe or feel like you like or love the same sex but it is really just you wanting to f*** whom ever.
    It would be pointless to elaborate anything to you.

    Just give it a few years and your brain will fully develope and be able to comprehend everything.

    You are just confused and rebellious at this point of tour life and more than like will be till you graduate high school or even colledge.

  • Anonymous gave Advice

    I just want to point out to people that children these days are different and go through puberty ALOT more quickly. So teens such as yourself don't really think about cutties and do like like people. Wether straight or not.

  • Anonymous gave Advice

    I just want to say that some people may think that if your 13 that's too young because you shouldn't be thinking about this kind of stuff but that's not necessarily true. Yes, you shouldn't worry yourself and maybe your just relating to girls, BUT then again you don't need to have sex or anything sexual to KNOW your sexual orientation. When I was around your age (in fact I still haven't) I didn't have sex or do anything sexual yet I still had an feeling I was gay. Right now I'm a 19 year old girl and I've had SEVERAL boyfriends but I still felt myself falling for other girls. Was I bi, was I just "relating"? I didn't really know, all I know is that I've only ever REALLY liked one guy and dated him. This could've just been because I liked him for over 2 years before I really even knew what "like" was. But after him I got boyfriends never felt the same. Then I was madly falling head over heals for my best friend at the time when I was 12 but I didn't really think anything about it, again I thought oh I just think she's pretty and want to be like her. When I was around 13 i was going through puberty so of course I had "feelings" (if yunno what I mean ?). Anyway my friend and I were playing spin the bottle (at school ?) when It ended up landing on me and her, however we weren't supposed to kiss people of the same gender on the lips she still kissed me on the lips just cuz she said it didn't matter and we were that close. When we kissed I felt something which was when I really started thinking "I think I like her". Then after a couple years when I was 15 I had already figured out I was not straight and confessed to my friend we dated still together till now and even got proposed to. Of course I got a couple girlfriends before that time and firgured out I was gay. So just saying that yes, it's best to live life and see if anything happens, BUT sexuality doesn't have anything to do with having sex or sexual activities.

  • Anonymous gave Advice

    YOU 13 ... how the f*** do you know your gay ,.. your 13 you should be out side f***ing playing not thinking about this sh**.... .. why and how do you even know what sex is enough to think you are gay ...? you 13 !!!! HOW DO YOU EVEN KNOW YOUR GAY ? like really ..? thats just odd... when i was 13 i didn't like girls or boys... i still thought boys were icky in general.... be a kid .. don't think about sex... you are to young... if you do your just going to get confused. I know to many people who thought they were gay just due to the media and worse and f***ed up there lives with it ..... don't envolve your self with that your to young your body is still developing and figuring stuff out. go out side .. make a fort .... ride a bike ...play pretend ... have fun ..... ... for all you know you may like boys one day when puberty hits fully ... you never know . ... like have you even seen a dick ? those things are cute ... ... but when i was younger i thought hey were gross like not even like icky like OMFG WHAT IS THAT THING THAT IS DESCUSTING its liKE A g**d*** alien thing I WILL NEVER TOUCH THAT sh** GROSS... / i have all boys in my family i am the only girl so yah ... and i am the eldist alot of dirty dipers were changed... lets just say that... ... if i was raised today i would have i thought i was gay to just because i didn't like boys at and only wanted to hang out with girls and only thought girls were attractive and cool looking and such i wouldnt even watch movies when i was younger if there was not a girl in it because i didn't feel like i could relate to it... .... all because i was KID AND NOT SEXUALLY READY TO LIKE ANY THING YET. then i got around 15/16 and it was like a train ... i still even remeber the guys name ... guys made me fall in love love ... you won't know if you are really gay tell your older then if you honsetly can look at any type of guy and feel nothing in your stomach and heart and else were.... then your gay .. but your to young ... .. i mean hell i hated boys so much when i was younger i would not talk to them ... gez.... kids these days ... your 13 of corse you have no romantic love for a guy yet... and the feelings you think you have for girls may just be your bodies confusion mixed with the media and every thing else..... if you find boys icky still at 13 ... its normal and does not mean you are gay ... and just because you think another girl is hot and want to be her friend or hug her .. or be like her does not make you gay ... its only if you litterly want a face full of well the stuff you see in porn .. witch you are still to young to really know about ... ... I am not saying your really strait or any thing but give it time .. just forget about love and sex for now and enjoy being a kid i mean you have over 97 years or more to worry about that stuff.... you only have like 5 years left to still play and be a kid.... so enjoy it .... because if you dont time will go buy and all of a sudden people are calling your game sytsems and movies retro and you were so caught up in boys and trying to grow up that now your to big to fit on a slip and slide and you have bills to pay ....

    the point is your body is growing .. you can ask any other adult its how it works tell you get around 15-16 .. some girls and dudes utterly HATE the oppisiste sex untell one day BAM they see some one and it hits them like a ton of bricks..... i mean do kids now adays not have the cootie faze thingy ..? for all you know the things you have been told buy the media are love are not . and are just you finding and realting to females more so you connect more and want to stay with them and find them more attactive due to wanting to be like them still and having the cootie fase and with the media just being all cazy ...you 13 .. your body is still learning and ajusting ... you need to chill with the rainbows and sex and just realx be a kid .. i don't know if you know this but there are alot of things you can ONLY DO at 13 with out beign looked at like a freek.. or a creeper .. or just plain weird.... like chucky cheese man you cant go in with out some one under 14.... that place is awsome... ooh even 6 flags has parts you have to be 14 and under to see.... and disney to ...

    Your mom is right on the to young thing .. you laugh but for girls .. gez i knew 5 or 6 that "played pretend make out " around age 14-15 ... then when we hit high school bam those b****es were all nuts for the beiber and boys ... like good gally it was funny as hell...... i saw girls go from tomboys wereing boy clothing to strait up barbies in 1 year.... purberty in short is weired... dont go fully commiting to one thing tell your at least 16-18 ....

    you are to young girl .. sorry to sound like a nag or like i am taking your moms side... buuuh .... she is right... go be a kid .. like really ... has the media not showin you how sh** the world is ... like god go back into child mode why you still can !!

    • Anonymous replied

      That is not how being homosexual works. You don't have to "develop" being gay. It just happens. Just because she's young doesn't mean she's invalid.

  • Anonymous gave Advice

    I'm a mom of 2 teenagers boy and girl. I just found out my daughter had been sending nudes. This is a big deal for me because she never got in trouble perfect grades. I would tell her girls that do that are s*** and I was terrible about it. Maybe if I had not of been that way it could of stopped some of what she was doing. If I were you I would be who you are and enjoy your time as a kid it goes by so fast. You have all your life to deal with a**h*** . No offense to your mom.

  • Anonymous gave Advice

    Don't be afraid to be who you are, and don't be ashamed. Also, maybe dont some out until you can depend on yourself.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    Man that's just awful. I'm sorry.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    Man that's just awful. I'm sorry.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    That sux