I don't get it. How is your husband "flirting" with me when he's f***ing directly insulting me by calling me lazy and you as an adult called me out saying that we're flirting??!! How is that flirting??!! He f***ing insulted me!! I don't know how you categorize your definition of flirting but if that's what you think flirting is, it's no wonder why all the men you've dated were horrible to you