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My partner has been engaging in a behaviour pattern that has been slowly creeping on, and it sh**s me.
- when we're together, they're always on the phone; internet/facebook usually, or playing casual games; to the exclusion of the outside world. occasionally, we'll be watching a movie they haven't seen and they'll be doing this. the whole reason we're watching the movie is because they haven't seen it! if they didn't want to watch it, they could have said so, and i could have... read more

Every time I feel like I'm starting to do better (with my depression), she does something to drag me back in. The worst part is that I know it's not her fault, I know I should trust her, but I can't when I know he's at her house at 1 in the morning....and then I get angry. I get jealous and I get angry and then the fact that I know I'm the crazy one just makes me angrier and I can't describe it to her in a way that doesn't make me look like a psycho and that makes me angrier.... read more

I just ended a 2 1/2 year relationship. I feel so sad and unhappy. All i feel is a pain and hurt. But when I'm with him I'm unhappy and when I'm not with him all I want to do is be with him. WHAT DO I DO! #relationshipproblems #thisshitsucks

I'm feeling the worst right now... I've been together with this girl for 9 months now. She's been through bad bad times and I can relate since I crossed that same phase too. But since sometime now I'm feeling like even when I remember her of the beautiful things we have together the only thing that trigger is just bad thoughts from her previous relationship.
That makes me feel useless and powerless... I don't know what to do at all... All I know is that even the strength that... read more

I need to get this off my chest before I lose my mind. You know what, you have been emotionally abusing me throughout the months that we were together and yet you try to convince me that I'm the messed up one, that I'm the one who's f***ed up. For the longest time I thought I was the one doing you wrong and I talked to so many people about how I feel like I'm the problem. Guess what? 100% of those people say I'm just trying my best to please you and you were the one with the ... read more

My husband... he was messaging someone all day and night last night. Would fumble with his phone and put it away if I came near. He was using WhatsApp, when I woke up I noticed his last time available was at 5:20AM so literally, all night. I'm checking on his "online" status and he's on now again, while at work.

He normally never uses WhatsApp, he really disliked it in fact. Last night, I was just watchful, and didn't ask who he was speaking to. He was still "loving" to me, ... read more

I spent years trying to perfect myself to make him feel the way he did when we first met. I yearned to sense that spark we both shared the day HE said he loved me. But as time wore on, he became distant and less interested. He no longer enjoyed my company and began seeing me as that last option. Things only got worse when he went off to college 400 miles away. His time was given to people he just met, and most unfortunately, he considered himself alone and not committed when ... read more

I want to move out. I can't stand living with you anymore. I used to want a life with you but now I don't. I'm miserable. At first I thought it was because I was immature and selfish but now I realize I'm growing up and all the sh**y things about you I found charming as a fifteen year old isn't gonna cut it anymore. I want to move back in with my parents and try to get my life back together. The only reason I haven't left yet is that I'm scared. I'm scared I can't. I scared ... read more

So this is a topic that might be sensitive to a few people, but I am bisexual. And I have the most amazing girlfriend ever, and I love her so much but I cannot tell my parents because they will surely be upset/confused/scared/disgusted with me. And the huge problem is, its a long distance relationship, with an age gap- But since Ive known the girl for pretty long, they know her too and they thinnk shes a really good friend of mine. I dont know what to do.
#Relationship... read more

We literally broke up 4 days ago and when were dating we nothing but make each other feel like sh** over messages because that's the only way we spoke but as soon as I would see you in person a spark would be there and I would always feel okay no matter how much we were arguing over text. Even though you made me completely miserable to the point of where friends were worried to leave me alone. Somehow I still miss you and find myself picking up the stupid valentines dog you g... read more

I miss my ex so much. I don't know how to tell my current boyfriend or what I should even do. We're miles apart now (my ex and I) and have been over for two (almost three) years now. I feel like I've never gotten full closure and I really, truly did (and still do) love her. She was my world and it hurts my heart to know we don't even talk anymore. She was once my closest friend. I just don't even know what to do. I heard her voice via video online and my heart sunk. I really ... read more

I need help...
my ex came back into my life saying that he still loves me and im his world. we are long distance so we cant hang out or do anything.
im in love with him too, I never wasn't, even when we broke up.. but he has a girlfriend and he is currently living with her. he says we are "just friends" but I don't get it considering he begged to have me back in his life. he doesn't make any effort to talk to me and he often doesn't answer my texts even tho he said he couldn'... read more

okay so i guess this is where i can vent. so theres this guy. we've gone out four times. never done anything too serious, because we're too nervous. well this last time we went out, he broke my heart pretty bad. he simply said, "i cant be in a relationship at the moment and i need some time." but then he went and dated one of my old friends.. they shortly broke up afterwards and we just avoided each other for so long. then about a week or two ago, he texted me out of nowhere ... read more

I'm afraid that I might meet someone twice as handsome and beautiful than my boyfriend. I moved away from CA to work in another country. I encounter so many beautiful people every time I go to go-sees and casting calls and I always have this thought in the back of my mind that I should keep my options open.. I'm young, I haven't even hit my twenties yet and I always have this idea that someone will sweep me off my feet. I always think I can do better and I feel so horrible fo... read more

I want to be loved again , i want to be someones something again. He gets another chance, so fast , after 2 years... we were gonna get married . I did everything for him, i cleaned, i cooked, i did everything. I endured the mental abuse , the physical abuse the bruises on my face. Everything! I did it because i loved him. And we are still friends we are good friends and I just want to know how to get past him being so happy. He's gonna be with her and im fine with that but ho... read more

My fiance and i split a couple months ago and he didnt want to date. Now he is dating again. I got over him for all that time , but part of me wanted him still. But now he's met this amazing, smart , funny and cute girl and he's spending all his time with her and he's so happy and I want to be happy for him and be the friend for him we both want to be. But i'm lonely i've wanted to be with someone since he and i split . and he's the one whos been and *badword* he's the one wh... read more

I had previously been dating someone online for a year. I love them more than anything, and I let them have my entire heart. I wanted to marry them. I wanted to have kids with them. I was ready to dedicate my life to them as soon as the time was write. They made unbelievably happy, and when we first got together that was hard. Before hand I was constantly depressed and I had a habit of self harming. My self esteem was at a rock bottom. They changed that for the better. There ... read more

I hate the relationship I'm in, to be honest. It was great at first but after I realized we wanted to be on the same side of the stick it got...bad. I'm uncomfortable with doing things that make him happy, so I force my way through them to make him happy. When he asks what I want I just bulls*** and say I'm fine. We tried switching and I liked it but I know it didn't fufill his needs, so we switched back. I've grown to absolutely hate him calling me a certain name and I just ... read more

i feel like the worst person ever. i've been dating my boyfriend for 6 moths now and it's been a very rocky road. we've been through highs ad lows, we fought a lot to get this relationship in the very first place and we still are. unfortunately, his friends weren't very accepting of me so they were part of the problem. we had issues for about 2 months, during which they disliked me quite a lot and he felt trapped somewhere in between of me being hurt about me and doing my bes... read more

So, I need someone's opinion..So right now in my life I am dating this guy. Him and I have been together for about three years and we have broken up and gotten together a few times in the three years. We have both done mistakes, but not to make him sound the worst, he would do things behind my back and would never tell me. When I would do something bad I would come clean but the things he did made my "bad" things look good. He went and hung out with his ex (& she would bully ... read more