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So...I came here to vent because I feel as if I ramble on about the thoughts roaming in my head to my bestfriend or my boyfriend they'll get annoyed or won't understand. I have my days where I feel like complete sh*t! And I can't talk to my boyfriend about it because he'll say he went through worst and then I feel bad for even crying about it. My life has been crap since I can remember, my family hated me for being fat. Especially my mother, she was embarrased! So 8th grade y... read more

Im not quite sure what to do, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and I feel like all he cares about is himself. He'll do something that makes me upset know that it makes me upset and not care or say anything. Over the last year he's lied to me about 4 girls. The first girl he lied to me and said he was at home when he was actually hanging out with her, the second girl he deleted messages with her (didn't tell her he had a girlfriend) and once I saw the conv... read more

Im not quite sure what to do, my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and I feel like all he cares about is himself. He'll do something that makes me upset know that it makes me upset and not care or say anything. Over the last year he's lied to me about 4 girls. The first girl he lied to me and said he was at home when he was actually hanging out with her, the second girl he deleted messages with her (didn't tell her he had a girlfriend) and once I saw the conv... read more

So I've struggled with this one special person on and off for years, right? There are circumstances that stop me from dating them. When we both had a mutual attraction, I said over and over exactly why it would never work, because our core beliefs were in direct conflict. But we kept on being friends. They were my best friend, and I talked to them on skype every night, ignoring my school work and early mornings to just get those hours in to keep them company while they worked... read more

I wish that the biggest problem in my relationship wasn't self blame. There's no talking out problems of any sort because immediately it goes to self blaming. When suggestions are made on anything, they're immediately thrown out the window for more self blame. I can't deal with it. It's not healthy

#relationshipproblems

Today my boyfriend gave me his snapchat password to keep our streak going while he's away with no phone service. I find out that two months ago, right before my birthday, that he's cheating on me. He probably was last month as well but that evidence was destroyed when he unfriended her. He started telling me he loved me and all this stuff like a month into our relationship; not even. I put so much trust into the kid only to find out my biggest fear was brought to life. Sure h... read more

tfw your boyfriend is slammed with homework and projects and you have literally nothing, he has barely spoken to you in the last week, and cancels every lunch date/weekend date that you suggest,,, recently hes been super stressed out about school and whatnot, and in the time that ive been able to speak with him, he jokes a lot about suicide and wanting to die (which he normally does but recently its been a little darker and more serious sounding). he used to tell me how much ... read more

Sometimes I know I need to leave him, but I think about all the other things and I can't. I'm so stressed out from taking care of our medically fragile 15 month old twins by myself. He chooses to not understand things from my point of view and when I voice my dissatisfaction he gets butt hurt and becomes an a**h*** . When he becomes an a**h*** he says things that aren't necessary and ALWAYS crosses the line. His family sees how he he's not doing his part as a father and helpin... read more

I had a friend for awhile that I increasingly got close to because she was going to be moving away in a few months. I was never good with keeping friendships in my life so when I did have one, I cherished it. We would go shopping, get makeovers, go out to eat together all the time. I was also married though (for almost a year) and I hate being away from him so I would have him hang out with us every now and then since he didn't have any friends. One time we drove up to NYC an... read more

My fiancé and I aren't talking to each other. Hes been gone all day and hasn't called even once. He was going to work (12hr shifts, 6 days a week) yesterday and I didn't want him to leave, but I understood he had to heat back. I often go to his mechanic shop with him, so I offered to tag along. At first he said yes, but then changed his mind. Why did it bother me so much? I have abandonment issues and he knows it. I didnt have a loving mom and my dad was never there. The ink... read more

i tried breaking up with my girlfriend today didnt work she said she can change #RelationshipProblems

One of my best friends just told me that for months they've found me annoying. For the past few months I felt like they felt this way and felt uncomfortable around them and felt like they didn't really want to be friends with me and were just doing so because we were in the same friend group, but they just confirmed it. And while I'm not too surprised, now I'm just thinking about all the people that don't really like me and are just going through the motions. I'm thinking as ... read more

Whelp, all of the people who I've ever gotten close to have either disappeared or died. In the meanwhile I keep on beating myself up for being a freak of nature. On the bright side, my fifteenth birthday is in a few months, even though I could care less at this point.

#relationshipproblems #everyoneisgone #pleasehelp

Been with my GF for 3 years now. It's been​ the best relationship I've been in up to this point (not saying too much though to be fair.) We moved in together like 9 months ago and it feels like things have slowly been falling apart ever since. Roommate issues and feelings so often get in the way of romance. I don't feel close to her anymore. I try to cuddle but I just don't feel that closeness. I try to go out on hikes and walks with her and more often than not she just com... read more

GUYS, how can you put a woman through 6 years of loving and hating u back in forth and u pulling her back in every time she leaves just to end it all for no good reason.

I have bought my man many things over the years, loaned money, been his personal taxi, mentally, physically and financially supported this guy for 6 years since i was a sophomore in highschool. I do nothing but support this man, encourage him to achieve his goals and ask nothing in return but time. Why does ... read more

So done with constantly giving people what they need and not prioritizing myself, then getting criticized or having my flaws pointed out.
Also very annoyed by how i woke up feeling I could conquer the world, or at least my university assignments, and then having my entire day ruined by the one person I trust and give my everything to. #RelationshipProblems

My boyfriend is very confusing. He's not very passionate or romantic, but he talks about wanting a future with me. I always feel like I care way more about him and try to make him happy, and he is just kind of dull or doesn't notice me at all. He talks about moving in together, hints at an engagement, but says it in a completely monotone way. Is this just how some people are? I don't want to be stuck with a boring boyfriend
#RelationshipProblems

I'm pregnant. I also have BPD- borderline personality disorder. I was on medication for 8 years before becoming pregnant. I wasn't trying to become pregnant-it happened on its own. I had to stop all of my medicine cold when I found out. At first I was okay-just taking everything as it comes, as happy as I can be while throwing up all day. Everything seemed all okay. Then my BPD came back and hit me like a train. Everything all at once-I shouldn't keep the baby, the father doe... read more

I think this might be weird and many might not respond, but if you read this, please give advice on what to do, please.

So my mom has been judging me recently, she keeps commenting on how fat I am, how I act, my way of doing things, How my acne been very noticeable recently, how I do things ( laundry, writing etc. ) etc. And she talks about it to her friends too, not in a caring way but in a ' mean girl gossiping ' way. She talks about it loudly in public, and she keeps hitt... read more

I been with this guy for 2 years and when I asked him to move in with me I wasn't working then as soon as I got a job he wanted to move in with me but I was hesitant about it. Recently about a month ago to be accurate I decided to let him move in. Now we are going into 2 months and I've come to realize I don't like living with him but I'm conflicted with how to tell him this and if I do is it just a fade I'm going through. I don't want him to get mad which I'm sure he will an... read more