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  • Anonymous left a Comment

    Really, what a person does in their sex life before a relationship is irrelevant.

    The thing is, the people who get all upset when they find out their partner is not a virgin are jealous that they did not have sex, too.

    You'll never admit it. But that's how it is.

  • Anonymous left a Comment

    It's just my opinion, but it sort of sounds like he isn't ready to be part of a relationship where he has to be responsible for someone else's needs for his time. This is very important for a mature relationship, because when mates don't respond to the others' social/connection needs it causes arguments which can make the relationship feel unbearable. It sounds like you fought a lot about little things and it had him feeling like a failure a lot of the time and so he said some pretty hurtful stuff to someone else about it. We all say things and over exaggerate when we're upset sometimes. I think that's what the text was. It also sounds like he really does care about you, and likes being with you, but he just can't seem to NOT be selfish and want his own time and do what he wants anytime he wants.

    Perhaps he was lying about William to try to escape from the focus on him hurting you by simply ignoring you. Hoping that you might confess to something and he wouldn't be the only one to blame for how messy and hurtful this all has become.

    He just sounds like he's really not ready to be in the type of relationship you want and deserve. If you continued with him, I would say you would have to accept him doing whatever, whenever. If that's not the type of maturity (or immaturity) level you can accept, I would think it would be best to move on.

    Sorry you're having such trouble right now. I hope things get better for you soon.

  • Anonymous gave Advice

    It's time to let him go. If he doesn't appreciate you and care enough to tell the truth, he doesn't deserve your unreciprocated love. But at the end of the day, it's your call and your life. Whatever you do, do it with your own best interests in mind. Hope I was of some help.