Umm...this sounds like some high school/middle school sh** and you need to find a new guy because he seems childish if he hasn't "set things straight". He could be scared of hurting your feelings too and to me it sounds like you were going to be his back up plan if the other girl didn't work out. You should just talk to him though but I think you shouldn't put your standards so low and waste your time on him. Don't act like you're so desperate for him. You can find way better men. Just saying. But I don't know, it's really up to you. You don't have to listen to what I'm saying.