Just found out that my wife has a secret credit card with 10k on it. What makes it worse is that the same thing happened 2 years ago with 7k. We settled the debt from the first card, but I'm tired of this. Right now, she's a full time student while using my GIBILL (military college money), she has a new car (2017 subaru), and she hasn't worked since the beginning of 2016 so that she could focus on her degree. I love her, but she's making my life harder and not bringing me peace at the moment. What really sucks about this is the timing. We found out that we were pregnant in Jan, but had a miscarriage. My wife is recovering from surgery and tomorrow is her birthday. I'm just tired of being taken advantage of.