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    Pornify girl children/infantilize adult women
    In real life, and as mirrored in media images, very young girls are sexualized and mature women are made to resemble sexualized girls. No girl is too young to be penetrated by men; older women who are both sexually experienced and of full mental and legal capacity to consent to intercourse are relatively unappealing, and can be made more appealing if their apparent life-experience and capacity to consent are removed by making them look like children. Both presentations are evocative of the rape of female children by boys and men.

    Why? Because…

    Pornifying girl children/infantilizing adult women — and raping very young girls — supports male power. Raping girl children is a powerful grooming technique, whereby men condition young, inexperienced girls to accept penis-centered sex and penetration under all circumstances and regardless of context, and to expect physical pain from it, before they are old or experienced enough to know what is “sexual” (ie. sexually pleasurable) for them. And raped girl-children are known to grow up to be “promiscuous” adults, often running away from home only to be recruited into human trafficking and rape-slavery, and often working in prostitution and porn. A permanent class of previously abused women for whom sexual abuse and pain, including painful intercourse, has been normalized and is expected, benefits men, who can “purchase” economically coerced women on whom to practice abusive sex, and who benefit from women’s “promiscuous” unpaid male-centric sexuality. See also Normalize porn/prostitution; Normalize abuse/neglect; Fetishize female vulnerability; PIV-centric narrative; Rape and rape culture.

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    Mansplaining/women’s perspective is wrong
    In real life, and as mirrored in media images, men mansplain to women constantly. Often, men mansplain to women who do not like pornography why it’s really harmless, or mansplain to women who criticize or abstain from PIV on political grounds or women who do not enjoy PIV that they are just “doing it wrong.” Doctors and other experts and professionals are actually experts in mansplaining and professional mansplainers; unsurprisingly, male experts — being male — often mansplain to women on the topics of PIV and porn too. Of course, from women’s perspective, not liking porn and PIV is very reasonable, where porn is often documentary evidence of coercive sex (i.e. rape) and where pornographic imagery provides no obvious indicators that the “sex” is consensual, and where the circumstances do not imply consent. And where PIV is a dangerous sex-act for women that causes anxiety, stress and medical events (even when it is otherwise pleasurable) because it can and often does result in unwanted pregnancy, starting a chain of events that can harm, seriously harm, and even literally kill you. Rather than acknowledging the validity of women’s perspective on any issue, which is based on centuries of collective lived experience and biological reality as well as individual and even professional expertise, women’s perspective is considered defective or based in ignorance.

    Why? Because…

    Mansplaining supports male power. Mansplanations are not merely a waste of women’s time or inane — but essentially harmless — babbling by oafish men; in actuality, mansplanations are an exercise in forced-perspective, where men force women to view the world the proper way, which under patriarchy means through men’s eyes. Mansplanations are thought-terminating — they are intended to and do actually stop women’s thought processes and women’s discussions in their tracks, where those processes and discussions are coming dangerously close to representing a female-centric reality, or where men’s interests are not being properly represented and catered to. The intent of mansplaining is to get women “back on track” to furthering the patriarchal agenda, and to undermine the true revolutionary potential of majority-female or female-only spaces where women are free to go to the ends of our thoughts, based on our shared reality and experiences and our hope for a better future, and our shared, sincere desire for the end of patriarchy and undermining of male power. Because of male entitlement, men are simply used to unearned deference on every issue (especially from women) and having sexual and other access to women and women’s spaces, including inside our discussions and in our heads. See also Handmaidens of the patriarchy; Male entitlement; Normalize porn/prostitution; PIV-centric narrative.

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    It's not all about men stfu and stop spamming this post in a misogynistic rage it's PATHETIC

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    men have mental breakdowns too you f***ing asshat. you aren't funny

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    Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent. Don’t ever forget it, and don’t ever underestimate it. It’s ruining the world. But I can’t end on that note, so I’ll end on this one:

    “Perseverance is more prevailing than violence; and many things which cannot be overcome when they are together, yield themselves up when taken little by little.” ~Plutarch

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    This will not be solved in my lifetime or my daughter’s lifetime, or ever, without a serious come-to-Jesus reckoning among ourselves as a species. Until “male-pattern violence” can be spoken and written about openly, nothing will change. After all, if we can’t have a direct and public dialogue about who is committing the lion’s share of human atrocities, how can we ever hope for a kinder and gentler world?

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    Male violence is the worst problem in the world because it is both catastrophic and undiscussable. For some reason there is plenty of handwringing and arguing over the religion of violence or the race of violence, as if those are the most salient or defining predictors of the brutality occurring on a global scale since the dawn of time. That the most common denominator of all violence — from a single beating to the murder of millions — is under-researched, rarely written about, and aggressively denied is hideous.

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    Male violence is the worst problem in the world. It causes all the suffering and inequality.

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    Meanwhile millions of women are being raped and tortured IN AMERICA at an epidemic rate. And here we are in America with rapekit backlogs in every state bc no one cares about serial rapists or the suffering of victims.

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    Meanwhile millions of children in third world countries are dying and women are being raped and tortured. And here we are in America b****ing about stupid "problems" that don't even exist.

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    sh**stained troll tries to spam the truth but only makes It more popular haha

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    EVER NOTICE HOW EVERY MAN IS A SELFISH HEARTLESS a**h*** ???

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    Spamming isn't cleaning dumb troll

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    I'm so sorry, my only purpose was to clean the trending section.

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    Ever noticed how all women's problems begin with men? MENstrual cramps...MENtal breakdown....MENopause...GUYnocologist!!

    Anonymous in People
    Mar 27 -- 2:39pm 29 56 46
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    What is the difference between men and women?
    A woman wants one man to satisfy her every need........
    A man wants every woman to satisfy his one need
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Mar 27 -- 2:39pm

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    Why are vibrators better than men?
    Because they never screw other women, never come in drunk, and you don't have to do their laundry!
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    Mar 27 -- 2:40pm

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    Where do you have to go to find a man who is truly into commitment?
    A mental hospital.
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Mar 27 -- 2:40pm

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    How does a man keep his youth?
    By giving them money, furs and diamonds. Lol
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    Mar 27 -- 2:40pm

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    What is the difference between garbage and men?
    Garbage gets thrown out and stays out!
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Mar 27 -- 2:41pm

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    Why does a man have a clear conscience?
    Because it's never used.
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Mar 27 -- 2:42pm

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    You are hatful a** women. you can just as easily change your jokes to "woman...".
    Men and woman are both one.
    We are human beings get over your one sex over the other bull sh**. Feminists are like f***inf nazis
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    Mar 27 -- 2:46pm

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    I'm a gay man haha
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Mar 27 -- 6:36pm

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    Feminists should be in charge there wouldn't be so much inequality and suffering
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    Mar 27 -- 6:37pm

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    Funny cuz it's all true, most dudes are selfish hateful pigs that can't take what they dish out
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    Mar 27 -- 6:38pm

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    Anti feminists have become such little whiny b****es... its hysterically ironic that girlhaters act like triggered victims in a hidden matrix that oppresses the poor mens soooooooo unfairly lol ?
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    Mar 27 -- 6:40pm

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    careful you triggered a misogynist lol
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Mar 27 -- 8:05pm

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    What's the resemblance between men and women?

    Neither of them knows how to shut the f*** up.
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Mar 27 -- 8:10pm

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    Men always derail and use false equivalency.
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Mar 27 -- 8:54pm

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    Listen ladies let the woman hater tell you how wrong you are to want equality
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    Mar 27 -- 8:55pm

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    Women tolerate pain better than men.

    After all, they have to endure the equivalent of a bowling boll popping out of their vagina every time they give birth. But an episode of the show MythBusters proved that women can hold their hands in freezing water 19% longer than those crybaby men.
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    Mar 27 -- 8:56pm

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    Women handle stress better than men.

    Researchers at the University of Western Ontario concluded that women are far better than men at handling the stress of job interviews. Female brains also secrete more oxytocin—AKA the “cuddle hormone”—than male brains, making women calmer under fire than men are.
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    Mar 27 -- 8:57pm

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    Women have better memory than men.

    A study at Aston University in England concluded that are better than men at remembering things two minutes, 15 minutes, and 24 hours after learning them. A Mayo Clinic study said that not only do women naturally have a better sense of memory than men, the gap widens with age.
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    Mar 27 -- 8:58pm

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    Men are spoiled cripples
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    Mar 27 -- 8:58pm

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    They can't stand to hear the truth and are too selfish to do anything about rapekit backlogs or inequality
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    Mar 27 -- 9:02pm

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    Plenty of time to mansplain how all women are oversensitive liars though while furiously jagging off to rape and kiddie porn
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    Mar 28 -- 10:24am

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    If porn was fair and healthy people wouldn't be ashamed of doing or watching it but they know they are watching abuse and getting excited by it
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Mar 28 -- 10:25am

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    ... stealing John Leguizamo's stand up material?
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    Apr 4 -- 1:39am

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    Who? Men are #SCUM
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    Apr 4 -- 1:19pm

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    Trigger the trolls it's fun to watch them sh** themselves and fling it all over lol.
    Anonymous left a Comment
    Apr 4 -- 1:21pm

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    Ever noticed how all trolls and rapists are men? And serial killers? #YESALLMEN
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    Apr 4 -- 1:22pm

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    I haven’t always hated men. I used to have a high sex drive, and I wanted to get married and have children and a family of my own just like everyone else I knew. In fact, deep down I still wish I could do those things. But I know that just won’t be possible. I didn’t start hating men because I was a feminist who was angry at men for having more rights and privileges than me or because I think women are better than men. I began hating them because they outright HURT me. Really badly. They have betrayed my trust and damaged my sense of dignity in the worst ways possible. One trusted male friend of mine who I had known for ten years suddenly put drugs in my beverage one evening in an attempt to take advantage of me. When his plan failed because he didn’t put enough drugs in my drink to completely knock me unconscious, he suddenly stopped speaking to me. (Not that I missed his company after I finally realized what he had done.) Another trusted male friend of mine who I had known for many years took advantage of me by suddenly telling me that he had had feelings for me for the past ten years. We had confided to each other often about things going on in our lives, and he told me that if I gave him the chance to date me I would never have to feel sad or hurt ever again. Of course I trusted him, because he was an old friend who I could talk to about anything. Well as soon as we finally slept together for the first time ever, he suddenly and immediately turned on me overnight. He suddenly went from being a friend who cared about me to laughing and bragging to everyone about what a “good lay” I was, calling me a “trick”, and even telling me “We were never really friends, I just thought you’d be a good lay and I was right. And I was gonna wait as long as it took to get you.” Then he ran off and slept with literally one woman after another after another after another…MULTIPLE women, some of them other men’s wives & girlfriends…using NO protection. At one point, half a dozen 40-year-old divorced single moms (he’s 28) all thought he was their serious “boyfriend”, unaware that he was making the rounds “servicing” other women all over town. Now he has a couple of illegitimate kids from these reckless liasons (and he isn’t involved in ANY of these children’s lives). At that point, I was no longer a person or even a human being anymore; I was just an object. I was no better than all the hundreds of other unsuspecting women he had slept with. I was just a dumb fool who got used and tossed aside: a joke. The utter shock, pain, and humiliation I endured from him doing this to me was unbearable. I realized then that if I couldn’t trust my own friends whom I had known for a decade or longer, then I really couldn’t trust ANYONE. And these are just two examples of the MANY times I have suddenly been abandoned, beytayed, or used by men throughout my life for no apparent reason. I’ve finally learned not to let myself have feelings for any
    man because the chances are high that he will suddenly walk away from me without warning and for no reason.
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    Apr 4 -- 1:23pm

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    All muslims are terrorist, whites are priviliged, mexicans are lazy, jews are cheap bastards, blacks are degenerates, chinese are smart, and the lists of ignorant stereotypes goes on and on....
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    Lordt. What even. Men and women both suck and can be the worst people you have ever met. I have met horrible people in both genders. Let it go and work on your own flaws and stop worrying about everybody's flaws ~~~
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