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I don't know how to say this. I don't know how this is possible.
It's almost been a year since everything happened. How can someone change so much? You don't even know how much you hurt me. I keep telling myself to let everything go and move on, and I HAVE made progress. A lot, actually. But sometimes, despite the fact that I don't even f***ing know you anymore, that you've completely changed, that you were once the sweetest, nicest, most spontaneous person I've met into a po... read more

I think I'm in love, and I hate myself for it. He's one of my best friends, and we've been friends for 4 years. Now we're both graduating college in 2 months so what's the point? Why did it have to happen now!? Damn it!

IwanttodieIwanttodieIwanttodieIwanttodieIwanttodieIwanttodieIwanttodie. My best friends are getting kicked out of their apartments and I can't do anything to help them, my emotions are off the f***ing map lately, and nothing I do ever seems to matter. What's the point anyway? We're just sacks of meat floating on a rock through space.

I'm in love with my best friend. We have hugged a few times, held hands, and even kissed once but I don't think he loves me the way that I love him. I really think that my life could be rewrote as a comedy.

My best friend is about to move far away from me and there's a chance that maybe I'll never see her again
For one side i'm happy for her, she's gonna do what she loves and have an amazing life
However, I'm still sad that there's a chance that we'll never see each other again
I know there are thing like skype and the internet but it's not the same than meeting someone in real life

I need to be more honest with myself. I've gone this long being a virgin, having no kids or STDs, no stressful life due to baby momma drama with someone I'm forced to have in my life for the rest of my life, but I am also tired of being single and I want a loving, cute and supportive girl with me to share my days with. I don't want a female best friend, I want a girlfriend. Its been 5 years since I've kissed anyone. My o... read more

I'm going to complain about my mental health again
and before I get started I just want to say that I have borderline personality disorder,but I may possibly have something else wrong with me ontop of that.but the guy that's supposed to see me to diagnose me is investigating school files whatever it is called,because I told him in school I was diagnosed with a verbal disability adhd and a intellectual hes takening forever. but he needs to do this I guess .ANYWAY... read more

I keep telling myself that I shouldn't let this sort of stuff bother me, but I don't have anyone to vent to about my problems and so I have been keeping all my problems to myself for months, afraid to talk to friends about this sort of stuff because the last time I did talk about my problems on a few occasions to a friend, they said I'm always to serious to have fun with. I'll admit I do become serious every now and then, but it's not like I'm constantly in a bad mood. I alwa... read more

Okay, I don't know if anyone will see this but it's not important really.

Basically, it's the classic break up situation. My long term girlfriend ended things with me recently and this is the first time I've had to deal with this feeling in years.

I suffer from anxiety and anger issues, which has put strain on the relationship and now it's pushed her over the edge. I have been in many relationships and they weren't all so great, in fact a lot of them were pretty messed up. ... read more

One of my best friends exes and I have been talking a lot and she's a good friend but I think she's flirting and I'm panicking. She's a great friend but I'm not interested in her and the fact that she's his ex makes it worse. I'm like 99% sure she's flirting but I don't want to say anything in case I'm just imagining it and if I'm not imagining it, I don't want to lose her friendship by telling her I'm not interested. Pl... read more

I have had a pretty hard life growing up, with the death of a parent and my best friend; multiple divorces including my parents and grandparents; an alcoholic grandmother who almost killed me by accident etc...since I met my now fiancé, my life has gotten so much better. We are so happy, have been together 6 years and bought our first home last year. We are getting married in a few months and I can't wait. I am however ... read more

I'm not this horrible person everyone thinks I am. Or am I?? I don't know anymore. All I know is that if I am, it is definitely not by intention. It's just my luck to try my best to be an honorable, friendly and kind person... to stay out of trouble, but somehow I am deemed the opposite. Nothing makes one more frustrated than to try to be something and the very thing you try to prevent is what occurs... Just by a simple example, not wanting to upset someone by bringing them t... read more

I could be happy if I didn't have social anxiety. Happiness is not for me I guess right. "Live life" what a joke. I know everyone thinks I am. Just dulling the pain of it all. Apathy's my best friend I guess. I don't even know what the heck is gonna happen, but the worst. I mean i guess I deserve it.

I am always second best. Ever since I can remember someone has always been funnier than me, prettier than me or smarter than me. That was okay until I really began to notice this; only recently. I am never the first friend to be texted or to be asked to do something. I'm always included but only because I need to be.
I am no ones best friend. I have many best friend... read more

b****. You have absolutely zero respect for my best friend. She talks so highly of you and you have the audacity to be flaky on her.
You're very lucky I have to be docile. I would've told you off a long time ago

I cut off my family because I was abused as a child. I reached out to my friends, but I feel really alone. Yesterday was my birthday. My best friend of over 8 years forgot...and only messaged me today "sorry for forgetting to text you." She was on Facebook and other social media yesterday...why couldn't she have taken the 30 seconds to wish me a happy birthday? She takes forever to return my emails and texts, and she alw... read more

I'm in love with my best friend, but I can't bring myself to tell him because he's not the affectionate type. I'm worried that if I tell him my feelings about him, he'll be so weirded out that we won't be able to be friends anymore. I'm a really shy girl, too, so I don't want to lose the friends I DO have.

Not really sure to go about this one so I'll start at the beginning.

I started really getting to know this one guy (as a friend) and I felt like we were really getting into a great friendship. He let me talk about whatever was on my mind and he never judged. We could talk crap about anyone and neither of us would say a word. He even had me promise that we would be friends through thick and thin (and to this day i have that saved). But one day he started to take giant steps b... read more

Oh man ok , so Im a junior in high -school and i have these two best friends, lets call them "brooke" and "brittany" . brooke and brittany have been bestfreinds for awhile and when i moved over from california we automatically clicked. Anyway brooke is dating this guy named "gavin " and he has a best friend named jesse. Ironically the 4 all dated so like two bestfre... read more

No longer friends with my best friend from kindergarten. I will not list their gender to keep it completely anonymous.
Sometime around last year their parent asked me and my family to watch them since their parents were going on a 2 weeks crews and their mom and dad don't trust them alone since they have attempted suicide by drinking bleach and cutting. I was perfectly fine with doing that and was excited to have them ov... read more