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My father was my best friend. We did as much as possible together. He passed away a few years back and I've felt an unbelievable void with him gone. Nearly two years ago my wife texted me to tell me that she'd moved her things out and was moving in with a guy she met on Tinder. We'd been together almost a decade and had our problems but I'd always been forgiving and worked through our issues. Even now I try not to be bit... read more

I've never vented before. Or talked about how i feel. I'm always the one looking after the others. Being woken up at 7 in the morning by my friend who's just overdosed and needed to go to hospital. Leaving work early and risking being fired cause another friend is having a break down and will only talk to me. Everyone relies on me and that's fine. But i dont know who i can rely on. I'm so numb now. All i want is a friend to take 2 seconds out their day and ask how i am. Inste... read more

Everything has to change again. I have to change again. I'm sick of it. It seems like everything and everyone around me is moving faster than the speed of light while I get stuck trying to figure out the small stuff. I feel like I haven't made much progress even though I know that's not true at all. But I do feel trapped by my heavy emotions almost all the time. Mostly when it comes to friendships and relationships. I don't know how to let people go. I don't know how to reall... read more

When I was in middle school I wanted to simply stop existing. No trauma - I simply didn't want to be here or anywhere anymore. When I was in high school I attempted suicide (I stopped myself before any real damage could be done. Nobody found out). When I was in undergrad my life improved but I still wanted to die. When I was earning my master's I couldn't stop thinking about killing myself. I got help, but only so that I could focus in class. I tried a therapist but I hated h... read more

TeenTalks: Is Your Friend a True Friend?
Your always thought you were best friends: you did everything together, and were inseparable, but now your second guessing your friendship: she no longer makes you a priority, and she seems to be using you for homework. Today I'm going to be talking about how to tell if YOUR friend is a true friend.

Start by asking yourself: has he/she always been there for you? When your dog die... read more

supposed best friend is being a hashtag b****
but of course I'm the a**h*** because my pain doesn't live up to his standards
is it really that f***ing hard to stop thinking about just yourself and how you view the world? seeing someone you 'care'(ha! what a joke.) about should be enough! you shouldn't need someone to give you an itemized list of every f***ed up thing that's ever happened to them for you to be =hey, you s... read more

My girlfriends mom got sick and I wasn't able to go with her to the hospital because of work I couldn't get off early now she doesn't want to talk to me see me I gues she is going through a midlife crisis because her dad also got sick and she wouldn't let me go visit them to hospital and she got sick and I cared for her and she blames me for not caring point is now she doesn't come home until late at night she doesn't answer my messeges but as soon as she gets home she is tex... read more

i needed and wanted and loved everything about you. your stupidity and your understanding and maybe you only stayed because you were in love with me. had it been platonic on both ends, would u have left. you promised you'd stay. you promised you'd help me when we broke up. i'm still with my boyfriend. but what about when me and you break up. who's there to help me then. my boyfriend, he hated that i talked to you. but u were one of my best friend have all been secretly shipping you with.

Only problem? He enlisted and is leaving in a couple months.


I told my best friend that I had feelings for him and he said he felt the same way about me. But my parents are really strict about the whole dating thing and I don't know what to do to convince them. My sister is the same age as me and they let her date but they said it's different for me for some reason but I don't understand why. How can I prove to my parents that this is what I want?



Recently I moved away from a place I lived for 6 years. I had to leave behind all of my friends and my old life. I started a new, and very different life in my new home. I was supposed to stay close to by best friend, but things started to get weird. She became best friends with my old
so my best friend has been seeming quite weird lately,like hes been doing things that he wouldn't normally do.(not going to go into detail sorry).and before I say anything I just want to say his over all niceness and sweetness hasn't changed, he hasn't become mean or anything don't worry.hes just becoming so reckless and getting himself into tr... read more

When you're best friends with someone you should NEVER try to get with them if they show that they aren't interested in that way. People who keep trying to force it make me mad. They don't listen and don't care what the other person is thinking. Just be my FRIEND! Stop trying to f***ing force me to be your girlfriend just because YOU want me to be.

FriendZone, You b****es, quit f***ing bitching... smh... Listen Ladies -- Guys aren't built to be emotionally driven. If women could understand the overwhelming compulsion men (especially testosterone pumped teens and 20's) have to suppress throughout the male lifespan, you would be appreciative that you are not constantly groped everyday. I'm sure you're repulsed by this unfiltered honesty, and trust me, I'm not proud of it. This incredible Defect humans with dicks possess, ... read more

Plz help, I need to break up with my gf I don't like her that way anymore but I just can't bring myself to do it. Her best friend who is also my best friend said never to break her heart. HELP!

My cousin and I have been in a feud for over a year now. Our relationship had been a bit rocky in the months before our falling out. She'd be bitchy to me or flat out pretend I didn't exist which was very unlike her as we were usually best friends when we were together. It all really started when I messaged her asking her to stop taking naked pictures in my bathroom. At the time she posted nudes to her nsfw blog on tumbl... read more

So I've struggled with this one special person on and off for years, right? There are circumstances that stop me from dating them. When we both had a mutual attraction, I said over and over exactly why it would never work, because our core beliefs were in direct conflict. But we kept on being friends. They were my best friend, and I talked to them on skype every night, ignoring my school work and early mornings to just g... read more

According to all known laws
of aviation,

there is no way a bee
should be able to fly.

Its wings are too small to get
its fat little body off the ground.

The bee, of course, flies anyway

because bees don't care
what humans think is impossible.

Yellow, black. Yellow, black.
Yellow, black. Yellow, black.

Ooh, black and yellow!
Let's shake it up a little.

Barry! Breakfast is ready!


Hang on a second.


- Barry?
- Adam?

- Oan you believe this is happening?
... read more

To my ex best friend of 10 years that was practically dating me: I still think you're in the wrong for what you did, but I still miss you so much. I like stupid little things and you liked those things too and even if we've literally only hung out 4 times out of knowing eachother we were closer than any of my 2 1/2 best friends I have now. They don't get the small t... read more