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I feel so unloyal because I have a long distance boyfriend but I am crushing on this boy at school and I think he is crushing on me too. I'm not going to actually act on my feelings, most we do is hug. I DONT want to like him but I do. I f***ing hate it and I hate myself for it. I'm such a bad girlfriend honestly.

He was a barista at the Starbucks off-campus--had two-and-a-half years on me, had some Victorian steampunk look to him, looks like an old school wrestler from the 1900s, chest hair popping out, with an auburn Heart of Darkness-esque moustache, dark brown gelled and undercut hair with subtle wavy curls and a matching goatee with droplets of coffee and cream caught in it. He's one of those guys that looks like a chubby geek at first, but is actually not.
When I first moved here... read more

last sunday we went out with a couple friends, one of which used to be my high school crush. we had a nice night out and the four of us ended up going sleeping at one of the guys' house. old-crush and i shared a bed. i woke up like three hours later with his hard dick rubbing against my a** and i was sleepy enough to not be too shocked and actually sorta go with it?... read more

"Well f*** me, why am I always an idiot???"

I had a crush on this boy I met this year. He was really sweet and nice, and we kinda hit it off. We jokes and talk thoughout the whole class. I told my friends about it, and they started to joke about me finding the one however this one friend told me it just an infatuation. I really didn't paid attention to that comment, I wish my dumbass did. I thought he was a real nice fe... read more

aggh. This girl I know told someone that i like this guy even though I have a girlfriend. I even told her I have a crush on a GIRL. How the hell..? Help me. I swear. I will drag her oml. Help. Help. I'm choking rite now. This boi.

Here's why I be salty.

A g**d*** GIRL
who i love very much hai kai if u evah see this ;v;

oml im laughing so much at this because i have a gf. This is so hilarious. Hel... read more

I've got a crush on my husband how do I tell him

So my friend, let's call her cazz, came over to my house the other night to have a sleepover right. we ended up having nachos with my parents and younger brother but during dinner cazz decides to spill all the beans to my parents about all the dudes and problems i have issues with at school.
and as parents are they hang sh** on you about stories with the preferred gender, in this case male for me, and never let it go and assume that the boys name that they heard is my boyfrie... read more

I miss you. I hope I'll see you after class today. You don't yet know how much you mean to me. How much I care about you. How much I want you to know that you are the most beautiful person, inside and out, that I've ever met. How much you've helped me through hard times without knowing you did. How much I love you. My best friend ❤. #crush #iloveyou #bestfriend #imissyou

honestly im really lost in what i should do. I had gym class with this boy. We never really talked but one day he messages me and tells me that hes had a crush on me for a while. Naturally I'm intrigued so i kept talking to him. A month has gone by and I've found myself really really attracted to him. He's constantly sweet and uplifting. We talk daily and I just am ready for the next step. But theres a few issues. School... read more

how do you know if its time to give up on someone? I really would do anything for this guy- but thats what im afraid of. I'm just scared he will take advantage of me and then crush my heart afterward... seriously i need help. how do you know?

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now and it's the first time any of my relationships have lasted longer than 6 months, and I was super excited and proud. Then I started bonding with his best friend and now I have a crush on him instead, but I know for a fact he is not interested in me even a little bit. I don't think it's worth ruining my relationship over, but at the same time it doesn't seem fair to continue da... read more

Having a crush on this guy is hard. Not only is he my best friend's older brother, but I'm 14 and he's 19. He shows signs of liking me back, but I know a relationship is probably out of the question. I don't know what to do!

PLEASE HELPP\\\\i have a friend who doesnt exactly come from a good home and hates her family. She can tend to be hostile and over sensitive to some people and is a bit on the socially awkward side. Shes also super funny, into video games and superheroes like me, and is always there for me no matter what . my ex boyfriend gave me a 'good ridance' letter per say after we broke up blaming my friend for changing who i really was and making me a cold hearted blob. He said he hope... read more

Tfw you try to be cool and say you're not too interested in romance but then you remember that your crush is in that friend group

does anyone have advice to get over a relationship?
it's been almost 3 months now. we broke up because they said "they don't have any feelings right now". we still flirted a little bit i guess and they said maybe we can date again in the future just not now. after a while i saw they had a crush on someone else already. i feel stupid for thinking they still liked me in that way. i don't trust or believe anything they say ... read more

I wonder if anyone is like drop-dead in love with me like I am with some people, sometimes I even wonder if anyone even has a crush on me. Tbh, it doesn't seem possible.

Today I just confessed to my crush via letter and I'm so scared. I didn't stay to see his reaction but judging from what my friend told me, I have a million different scenarions playing in my mind as to what he was thinking. At the time I'm writing this, it's Friday night, but I can't sleep because I'm just so cunsumed with the fear of having to see him in school again on Monday. I have no idea how he's gonna respond. At... read more

i don't know if this guy actually has a crush on me too or if i'm over exaggerating all of his actions. i mean his friends keep asking him if i'm his girlfriend / telling him to ask me out so ??? and one time i hugged him a bit too long and he was like you not gonna let go? so i did and then he pulls me in again and was like but i don't want to let go and mfjeofljsw

i can't stop cutting, it's just deeper and deeper. every night i see the familiar blood on the tiles which i can't be bothered to clean. i don't know why i do it anymore??? as a gay, trans male i guess i'm more "subject to discimination" than others.
but that can't be it??? i haven't had many personal hate crimes against me. i have a massive crush on one of my friends and he constantly flirts with girls and makes out wit... read more

I probably wouldnt be as antagonistic towards american gay month except the propaganda that gays are perpetual victims while this gay a**h*** is stalking my family because I got close to his crush.