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Okay so I'm an indonesian living in singapore with my mom , stepdad and 3 stepsiblings . 3 years ago , i found out i had 2 more sisters , seperated at birth . And it turned out one of them is living in singapore with her adoptive family . I really wanna get to know her and let her know that I'm her sister . But my main concern is if her adoptive parents still haven't told her that she's adopted ... what should i ... read more

UGH, I'm so tired of people telling me what to do and what not to do with MY life!!!

I JUST WANT TO FOLLOW MY PASSION TO BECOME A WRITER AND STUDY ENGLISH LITERATURE

BUT EVERYONE KEEPS TELLING ME THAT I SHOULD STUDY SOME SORT OF ENGINEERING MAJOR INSTEAD

WHICH I HATE!!

WHY CAN'T THEY JUST SUPPORT ME? THEY DON'T NEED TO AGREE WITH ME, THEY CAN JUST SAY LIKE, "OK, do what you want, it's your life :)"

BUT INSTEAD THEY JUST KEEP GOING ON ABOUT HOW THINGS COULD GO WRONG WITH ... read more

My sister in law is a crafty so and so plays the single mother card to get darling mummy to pay for her holidays.
So far this year she had had three holidays no doubt paid for by mummy and craftily on two of these holidays invites her mum knowing she pays for them all.the other holiday a lot of their family go on everyone pays for their own holiday but her.
We even went to her birthday meal very expensive per head was to... read more

My sister in law is a crafty so and so plays the single mother card to get darling mummy to pay for her holidays.
So far this year she had had three holidays no doubt paid for by mummy and craftily on two of these holidays invites her mum knowing she pays for them all.the other holiday a lot of their family go on everyone pays for their own holiday but her.
We even went to her birthday meal very expensive per head was to... read more

What do you do when you just want to push away all your friends and family and be left alone for all of eternity

I thought I will never get over my love who jilted me but for years I just kept on going forward with my life and doing things that I need to do. Going to school and getting another degree. Taking care of my family and doing more different types of work. Finally today for some reason out of nowhere I realised that I am over my love. It took years but it got there in the end. I'm proud of what I achieved, I knew I could d... read more

I'm in need of advice. I've been having some relationship issues for the past.. 1-2 months? We've been dating for about 4, I believe. My boyfriend has these moments to where he gets upset/pissed off about things, and it's started happening a lot. Whenever he gets like that, then I panic and worry. He never really talks to me about stuff, emotion wise. He's got a lot of walls built to protect himself. So, whenever he's mad. I get like that because I never know what's wrong and... read more

My family had never really treated me like family. They've always treated me like an outsider. Cold and unwelcoming.
Oh sure, there have been times when they've said nice things to my face but they talked crap behind my back spreading nasty rumors and lies about me just because for whatever reason they don't like me.

What did I ever do to you people?? Why can't you... read more

I have a lot of funny stories from when I was a little kid with my hotheaded grandpa and defensive grandma but the one that sticks out to me the most was when he yelled at me in the middle of a restaurant in a hotel on vacation for not eating with my fork correctly and the family next to us asked if I wanted to sit with them instead. Embarrassing for him lol I'd imagine from someone else's POV it would look pretty sad se... read more

I've been depressed for awhile though it comes and goes but I have so many thoughts running through my mind and no one to vent to about it. Not even my family as much as I would to love to tell them I'm depressed I feel like they can't even hold water so what's the point of telling them my problems?! I just don't feel like I have a support system

My best friend left Christianity and became an atheist. And now her family is treating her like complete sh** for it, they've threatened to kick her out multiple times because of her decision. It makes me so sad yet so grateful to have open minded parents. My parents are Muslims and as a kid they never forced religion onto me. They never even mentioned the hijab (head scarf) to me. I recently asked my mom why she & my da... read more

Whenever I listen to Hozier I want to leave my well established life and family and live a crazy, fun, tragic life based out of a van by a river. Weird.

i just got to college four days ago and im gonna stick it out for the first year but f*** dude if i dont like it by may im going back home and transferring to a school in my state. i dont immediately love it here and i miss my family. id save so much money too i dont even know why i chose to go to college so far away. i know its normal to be upset leaving home for the first time but g**d***if it isnt hard as hell. anyone... read more

So we are not good enough to go on holiday with when I invited you both .gave your excuses haven't any more holiday left off work .yet you both have gone on holiday with my partners sisters family booked a long time after I asked you both.
You haven't even bothered to come over and visit us while you wasn't far from us.
Don't bother saying your coming over to stay with us anymore when it suits you because I will be busy.... read more

I just feel so g**d*** awful for picking my out of state university. I went to get away from everyone who bothered me and I liked what I saw. But when I get there, I saw some drawbacks. Orientation seemed unorganized and weird, and my dorm lacked a.c. and proper heating. I think I may tire of going back and forth to the university too. Food is sh** overall. Although I like the academic scene overall, I think the cost of attendance is too high for what I'm getting. I wish I s... read more

When you're a young person who has no social life (and no will to start having one now) and no thoughts of the future, you find things to fill the void of emptiness that your life is. You either immerse yourself in hobbies, your (temporary) work, or family. And with no will to start dating, you "take care" of your own sexual drive. It works for a while...until it doesn't anymore.
So: I love my family, a Ex, or friends?

HELP please?! What do you do when the person you love INSULTS and breaks you. This guy just let me know that he values his career more than me and our relationship. He went back on so many of his promises and left me looking stupid in front of my family. I've been believing him and I've been by his side - defending him. Meanwhile he doesn't keep his word. I need some words of encouragement or something because I feel so ... read more

My boyfriend and I have a pet ferret, it is like our own little family and it makes me so happy, but since he has a bigger space and I am in college, he keeps our baby and when I am not with them I feel really empty.....

I stole someone's door. My friend and I were going to just take some sh** from someone's house while they were gone. Simple enough right? Well this family was particularly wealthy and we figured whatever it is we stole they honestly weren't even gonna miss or could probably just replace anyway. And I didn't wanna steal for no reason. Crime is an art! And you should have people view your work. So we wanted to take somethi... read more