Tbh I think a huge chunk of the world population feels like this but we all just pretend we don't. Just get through it.
Things get better. There's good moments to live for. I know life can suck but oh well what can you do.
1. Girls can be fake...stop pursuing them, eventually you'll meet a real genuine one
2. Not everyone is equally intelligent an it's not a problem, doesn't mean you're not good at something. Just look for something you like and find a way to get involved.
3. Trust me! Everyone's bodies have something weird, except models but f**k them right? Literally just look at all the things people google about their bodies
4. Self harm sucks and its hard to stop but replace it with something like painting yourself, getting a hands-on outlet/hobby
5. look up recipes to fade your scars at home
6. You might be annoying but don't you sometimes think your mom is annoying or your friends are annoying or your siblings?...bottom line, everyone is freaking annoying, everyone can just be a little less annoying lol
7. Since when are you a mega powerful mind reader that can read God's mind? God is disappointed in most of us.....just watch the news
8. Yes, i know.
tell him to recommend you things he likes like music or movies or games....check them out and tell them you lied them, that he has good taste
then share some stuff you like with him too...it'll create more bonding and getting to know each other
btw make sure at some point you get to see this guy....make sure he's real, and of an appropriate age, and not married or psycho lol.....just be careful please
Adults have problems and they're insecure and they take out their anger on their kids and their partners....don't take it to heart though. I learned to just be numb with them, do what they say, play along, after 18 you can leave and take charge of your life...just get through and plan out what you'll do after 18 so you're ready to go
As for getting the yelling and rudeness to stop, idk, some people are just so stubborn they won't listen to reason but if you don't fight back and just let her see how she's acting irrationally she might realize she's acting horribly
This happened to me once...I had a group of friends who just made fun of me and were rude all the time but they didn't realize it so they wouldn't leave me alone.....what I did is that I hung out with them less and less, stopped talking to them, until eventually the friendship had died out and they had moved on...
fake it till you make it
To someone prone to depression and living in a tough situation where you don't feel free to be you...it's just fake it till you make it,
-don't fight with your parents or your friends
-write your dreams and thoughts in a journal
-get through school and just count down to graduation if it helps
-plan some goals for the future and enjoy mapping it
I was always depressed but once i finished HS and was able to be myself it went away, sometimes i still feel a little numb because...life...but overall it's not agonizing and so lonely anymore
I just had to push through the whole teen stage of my life, it's only a few years....
After 18 is when it gets better and you get the legal power over your life to decide how you live it. Don't give up the opportunity to see how much you can do in the future. Whatever hurts now will only hurt now. In the future those things will have passed and you'll be experiencing new things, things you can control, to an extent of course. DONT GIVE UP
After Hurricane Ike in Houston, my family was left without power for 30 days...don't freak out you'll live
We actually really enjoyed that time talking by the candlelight, pulling up chairs outside to watch tv on a tiny screen we hooked up to our truck outlet, sleeping in the kitchen with the windows open for air...make it fun
Divorce your wife, go off to another country and backpack for a couple months....we feel like we're trapped in society because of work and people's opinions but if you feel this depressed and lost just go....leave for a while, find yourself, be happy, see the world...see that there's more out there an make a path for yourself....it seems crazy but its not, there's no need to kill yourself, you will die eventually so take all the time you have to live this crazy life how you want....f*** society's need to make you work and all these social responsibilities, happiness and health come first
Maybe, but you'd have to grow to like them...however if you simply don't like them you'll just hurt their feelings by not being able to appreciate them physically, like to be honest if you are not as interested in kissing them or sex as they are its awkward and you can't force yourself to be interested
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