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Bro's getting vexxed because ponyboy downvoted your post? a) I never denied ponyboy downvoted anything, I simply don't care. b) there isn't to my knowledge a 'quiet' way to send support to someone on muttr without someone needing to dox themself to exchange information. Refer to my Muttr suggestions post in January to request this be something that's addressed by the admin. c) I didn't attempt to shift focus on anything, I sent my support for a situation unrelated to you while pointing out that you're hate spam probably isn't helping.

I hope you're doing ok @Ponyboy . I wish there was a way for me to reach out and check on you that wasn't on the same site that a pretty relentless anon has been hating on you, but alas, here we are. I'm not a religious man but I can't think of any equivalent ways of saying the following so I'll just say that you've been in my thoughts and prayers and I hope that there are brighter days ahead for you. Sending you love and support 🫶

I'm not trying to be one of those pick me guys or anything like that but I truly don't understand how any woman could be attracted to the overwhelming majority of men. I feel like 99/100 of the men I come across are racist, homophobic, misogynistic or all of the above and they just hide behind the 'boys will be boys' or the 'dark humour' or the 'it's not that deep' excuses. Don't get me wrong, there are definitely a lot of women out there that suck as well but the bar for guys is just so much lower. Idk it's just sad and it irks me pretty regularly

My first time posting to Muttr was in 2019 I think - I was around 16 at the time. I didn't have anyone to talk to about my thoughts because I was scared of how it would change how others saw me. So I posted what was on my mind on Muttr. I said "I'm in a really dark place and it's taking everything in me to not wrap my car around a tree." Idk what I was expecting as a response but some guy (anon ofc) responded, "You should probably just do it - it might help the overpopulation crisis". Idk if you still use the platform and I highly doubt you'll see this but if you do, I want you to know that I kept living just to spite you. Every time I get in that place I think to myself, if I die by my own hand, that fucker wins. As much as you're an asshole for telling a stranger to kill themself, thank you for being one of the people that saved me and has continued to save me.